Maid of Honor Fired for Forcing Her "Cheap Lifestyle" Onto Bridezilla

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    Font - r/AmIthe Asshole Posted by u/kateymand ş 10 hours ago AITA for not going to my bestfriends wedding after she said I won't be her made of honor My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor and I said yes. I put aside a good chunk of money so I was able to pay, about $3000 to be exact. I honestly was hoping that I didn't have to spend this much but just to be safe I've put out a lot of money for this wedding I'm currently in a tough spot with money right now, I try to make this clear wit
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    Font - So to tell you what I did spend I spent money on wedding attire, shoes jewelry accessories, bridal shower a.k.a. decorations games food, etc. had to spend to go to her wedding itself I pitched in with her bachelorette party again decorations food, etc. I even spent the money on a hotel and I had to spend money on hair and make-up for the wedding which was 250 per hour because of the person she chose. OVER BUDGET. Well, we got closer and closer to the date and we were picking out bridesmai
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    Font - Anyways we finally found the dress that she picked I have no problem with the dress itself so it was beautiful I loved it but I hated the price. An average bridesmaid dress cost $150-$200 these were $450 each. There were 6 bridesmaids, I'm sorry that would equal 2,700 dollars, that is a huge hell no I've already spent more than I wanted to and I reminded her that she is going to have to start paying for these things because I'm reaching my limit. My mother can make these herself for a muc
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    Font - I said that I won't be paying for this at all I'm already a thousand dollars over my budget so I won't be paying for anything else. She got upset saying that I agreed to this wedding, I knew it would be expensive and as a maid of honor it is my job to do this for her, and I haven't even spent a quarter of what she's spent on this wedding, I said yeah because it is not my wedding. She started getting upset and raising her voice at me saying that I was being out of reach with her wedding st
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    Font - To which I said I shouldn't be there at all since she feels so entitled to me and my money and left, got loads of calls and messages from everyone cussing me out, but my flight was paid for so I still went there just not to the wedding and got a different hotel, and BOY people are soooo mad at me that I have no one on my side here but everyone and their mother is on my right now so AITA
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    Rectangle - bdlock209 9 hr. ago wait... what? SINCE WHEN IS IT NORMAL (3 FO FOR THE MAID OF HONOR TO FO PAY FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S WEDDING EXPENSES???!!! 6.5k Reply Share
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    Font - littlebitfunny21.5 hr. ago All cultures I know of - the families pay. Not the maid of honor. 59 Reply Share
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    Font - Nik-ki 4 hr. ago Parta ipant [1] That only flies in bridezilla land. What in the fresh hell did I just read

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